First let me begin with I have never smoked. I never thought it was a good idea and found it to be disgusting actually. I didn't like the smell and seeing the filters at the end covered in this brown stuff was gross. Both of my parents smoked since they were teens. My Dad especially had yellowish brown fingers where he had held his cigarettes for years. So to make a long story short - didn't like so didn't do.
Now over the years I have been a small advocate for non-smoking. I won't allow smoking in my car or my house - I have to breathe there so I should be in control. However, in public places I have always considered both sides. It has always been my thought that each individual no matter what the cause has a right to make up there own mind. I will share my side and I must admit debate and bring up reasons why they should be swayed to my side, but I don't force my opinions on other people. Since I don't smoke I would sit in non-smoking sections, I would often avoid places that were mostly smokers. If I was driving in a smokers car then I would ask to have my window down.
Now having said all that I must admit that a non-smoking world is quite attractive. I would enjoy not walking into smoke filled areas or smelling it on the clothes of smokers. Not to mention the equality of not having people take smoke breaks all the time while I am still working. BUT, I have to say some of these new laws and rules seem very over the top.
The building that I work in sends out memos regarding where smokers can and can not smoke. They regulate it because the smokers were standing in front of the building and when you walked in there was smoke everywhere. I thought that was fine, appearances and all. Plus to be honest it benefited me. I understand the no smoking in the parking garage because of all the fumes. But yesterday they sent out a memo stating that smokers were not allowed to smoke on or around the benches in the front of the building, that there was a designated area for them off to the side of the front of the building. They want them clustered in front and upside of the building but off to the side. Wouldn't it make more sense to get them further from the building where the smoke could go up and not hover. Why can't the smokers have a place to sit down and talk - why do non smokers have extra privileges. It seems so dictatorshippy (I know it's not a real word). Smokers have a lot of sanctions against them and seem to be just letting them take over. I hear loud and clear all of the non smokers complain - but rarely hear a smoker complain. Ok, I know it is an unhealthy habit, I know it is bad for them, I know the risks to other people. BUT, I also know that this is America and everyone should have equality. I mean a McDonald's double cheeseburger isn't healthy either but I don't see anyone grouping those people and putting them in a corner. Personal Responsibility people - not to mention that just because some people complain about something doesn't mean that you have to stop thinking and take away other peoples rights. I see this whole thing getting out of hand. Once you restrict one section, then who is next? Cheeseburger eaters, nose pickers, people who snore, people who chew gum, people who listen to music at work, people who wear crosses. At some point this is going to go to far. We need to stop being so sensitive and stop thinking that we are the beginning and end. There are other people in this world who are just as important as we are and should have the same rights and same consideration as we think we should have as individuals.
I'm not saying there shouldn't be rules that benefit the opposition. Yes the smokers shouldn't be right in front of the building, but forcing them to stand the whole time seems wrong. Don't let them get comfortable and they may stop. NOT! Have you ever met a smoker, they are killing themselves slowly with poison, taking a bench away is not going to stop them. They are a very resilient group. Yes designate smoking areas, but let's not punish someone for a bad habit.
3 comments:
Wendy,
That's a cool post. I like the idea of standing up for someone and rejexcting apathy even if it's not with the popular opinion.
I remember a quote that goes...
"First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out - because I was not a Socialist.
Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out - because I was not a Trade Unionist.
Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out - because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for me - and there was no one left to speak for me."
There are several varions of this quote, but the tought remains the same.
Because Truth matters,
George
I'm having a bad fibro day. Could you edit that last one for me?... LOL
Hey can you bring an ashtray over the next time you pop in, hey bring some tobacco too. We can sit out on the porch, and everyone will be happy. Cough cough, now if I could only get rid of this smokers cough LOL:)
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