Reaching Out

The other night I was studying Ephesians 4:25-32. It is basically about anger management. Now on any given day that is a fascinating subject to talk about. But the verse that caught me was verse 28. It is partially about reaching out to someone.

First let me brag on my friend Diana. She reaches out to me even after I have pushed her away. By doing that she makes me feel so cared for, that I will always have someone that cares about me. You'd be surprised how many people pull back after it gets difficult.

Anyway, reaching out is one of our Christian duties. If someone doesn't respond right away, we shouldn't just give up or move on. This is where we should reach out to Christ and ask for guidance, compassion and patience. We should reach out to those people who pull away. Backing off a little if needed but still available and in their sights.

On the other side, pulling away from the Lord or family and friends is a sure fire way to disaster. Even when we want to enclose ourselves and hide from the world we should reach out. At the least reaching for the Lord in need or desperation. We are not alone and should not act like it.

I know this from personal experience and it helps ease things to not close yourself off (even though it's hard and hurts). When you close yourself off a cocoon forms around you and it buffers not only the pain but the light. The bigger and thicker the cocoon, the harder it is to come back.

On the argumentative side though, it is easier to withdraw sometimes than deal with people who are superficial and don't really care or don't want to reach out and get their hands dirty.

But again, by reaching out to someone, you may be their only light or lifeline in that dark tunnel that they find themselves in. Whether you know it or not you could be that persons only guide out of the darkness.

I know it's hard, we make it hard. But the rewards are more than worth it.

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I have to say - It was so nice to see this sign. After hearing so much about the war on TV and how many men and women have lost their lives or have been wounded. It was nice to drive by this house and see such pride and love. No matter where you stand in the debate about the war - it is so nice to see that someone has made it home to his family. Into their open arms of love and comfort.

Can I?

I have a spaghetti sauce recipe that is very old that I have tweaked to make my own. I decided to make the homemade sauce to part of lasagna that I was making that night. Since I have been wanting to learn how to can, I figured this was as good a time as any. I would have extra sauce and I wanted to keep it for awhile for future meals. So I decided to begin my canning experience. I bought the jars and the utensils and made my sauce. I am so excited to know that not only did I make homemade sauce but I canned it as well. This might be silly but I feel like little miss suzie homemaker now. I love all the homemaker stuff. If I could I would be a stay at home mom and homemaker. I settle for weekend Mrs. Cleaver moments.

Anyway, I thought I would start sharing some of my recipes as part of my suzie homemaker moments. So I will start with the sauce.

First assemble all ingredients and utensils.

1 medium onion, diced

3 cloves of garlic, minced

1 carrot finely grated

olive oil

2 (18 oz) cans of tomato paste

2 cans full of water from the tomato paste cans

1 (29 oz) can tomato sauce

1 (29 oz) can crushed tomatoes

2 Tbls. kosher salt

1/2 tsp. of pepper

2 Tbls. oregano

1/4 cup of grated Parmesan cheese (I use Kraft grated)

homemade meatballs

1. Make meatballs. Set aside.

2. Saute onion and garlic in a small amount of olive oil. Add carrot. Saute until tender, do not brown.

3. Combine tomato paste, water, sauce, and crushed tomatoes in a large roasting pan. Add salt, pepper and oregano. Using a whisk, make sure everything is mixed together.

4. Add sauteed onion, garlic and carrot mixture to sauce. Mix well.

5. Add 1/4 cup of grated Parmesan cheese. Whisk gently.

6. Place meatballs in sauce. Gently push them into the sauce until they are covered.

7. Cover the roasting pan, and bake at 3oo degrees for 3-4 hours.

Please try it!!

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Technically shouldn't this be every room? Shouldn't the sign be a little more hospitable? I mean it's just too much gray to be very hospitable - don't ya think? :-) More joy is needed in the hospitality room. And why is hospital in the word hospitality - I've never found hospitals to be very hospitable. Can you tell that I like saying hospitable!

LOL

At first I think this is funny - I have a teenager and putting him in the trunk seems funny to me. But then if you dig deeper - a tv is more important than their child/other human being. Sad really. AND yet....

WBIR Knoxville
Couple arrested for putting teen in trunk to make room for TV.
A man and woman were arrested in Cumberland County Monday after putting a teenager in a car trunk to make room in the car for a television.

The arrest came after authorities got a tip that a child had been placed inside the trunk of a car traveling down Peavine Road. Cumberland County Deputy Timothy Tutors stopped the car, and asked the driver, Cory A. McDaniel of Crossville whether he had anyone in the trunk of his car.

McDaniel said he did, and opened the trunk, where the officer found a 16-year-old boy. Deputy Tutors asked why the boy was in the trunk, and McDaniel explained that a TV he needed to transport wouldn't fit in the trunk, but the teen would.

There was a large TV in the back seat of the vehicle. Cory McDaniel was arrested on charges of reckless endangerment, and is currently free on $1,000 bond awaiting an April 28, 2008 court date.

Also in the vehicle was Rhonda Howard, the teenage boy's adult sister. Ms. Howard was also arrested on reckless endangerment charges, and is free on $1,000 bond awaiting an April 28, 2008 court date.

The Department of Children Services is investigating.

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It's not one of my photos. I love it though!

Ramblings

I changed the channel to look at what the weather would be and it was a show on tornados. The scientist being interviewed said "The situation was unknown unknowns."

Isn't that redudent. I mean if it is unknown then it implies that it is unknown. An unknown of course is unknown because it is well unknown - of course, so why say it twice. It's kind of implied. Anyway, say someone has disappeared and is missing and no-one knows why. Well part of that is that they know the person has disappeared so it is not totally unknown - it is more of a known unknown. So you can have known unknowns but can you have unknown unknowns.

Don't you usually know at least a portion of something - just not all of it. You may not know the why but you know at least the result, I think. So is there truelly an unknown unknown. I'm not sure - at least I can't think of any. I can think of plenty known unknowns and just unknowns but not unknown unknowns.

Unknown means that you do not know something (well maybe a bunch of somethings). So can you not know not know something. Isn't that a double negative so it would mean you actually know something. Ok, now I'm all confused.

I think I'm just going to say I don't know and leave it unknown. Unless of course you know.

Spring

I think it might actually be here. Right now I am listening to birds, children playing and someone mowing the lawn. After days of gloomy rain and gray clouds it is finally sunny and warm. Of course I am also listening to the couple that lives across from us have a very loud argument. I guess reality had to break in.

It is beautiful out. I have the bird feeder out on the porch and several birds have been visiting. The cats love this of course. They sit by the window and their little mouths move up and down. I think they make little comments along the lines of "here birdy birdy." They look so expectantly at the bird and you can see the frustration in them when the birds fly away after eating. We let them out on the porch every now and then and they love to lay in the sun and just watch everything that is going on.

Yes, I think Spring is finally here. You can smell it in the air. I think that might even be garlic onion. Mmmm. That is one of the best things about Spring. The smells. Of course the pretty flowers and trees that just seem to poof overnight with bright colors are just as wonderful.

The winter is over and finally the warmth is here and we can emerge out of our little houses and be free again. Yeah it's Spring.

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I'm thinking if I'm going to have a nice day - I need less beige and a little more color. :-)